Wednesday 6 January 2010

Happiness in Small things

Have you ever imagined why we look for more when we already have something? Its the delusion that we deserve better. Sometimes its right, but a lot of times we don't look at what we already have...

A blind couple holding hands and laughing while walking on the pathway, making a very unlikely but interesting conversation with strangers on the tube, feeling shit a while back and some sunlight changing your whole perspective... These are small things that make one happy or at least lets say makes them feel positive...

Probably in todays world we see majority of the people lost in their own worries of life, but think about that one small thing that you do for someone that makes you feel good about yourself. Doesn't it give some meaning to who you really are?? I think it really does... It saves you from running all the time in this materialistic world and keeps you still as a emotional person... A human because of your heart..

I assume that little bit of caring, that little bit of love is all that we all are longing for... It sometimes makes us a complete different person towards a few people.. Here, I don't mean love in only one sense... It could be 2 best friends, a brother-sister anything.... Its for that sense of belonging..

We should all treasure those small joys that bring up a smile on our face months and years later when we see things or even remember them to just know that we were stupid, but those were the dayss.... THE DAYS...

For now, signing off with the thought, make those small wonderful moments everlasting ones... Let them bring that tear of joy or just a walk you through the golden memory lane....

Adios

P

Running Thoughts - 1

Nearly a week into the new year and it does not seem that its any bad. While snow covers the city of London, I am hoping that at least the tubes and transport don't shut.

The first few days were quiet and probably my resolutions had to be challenged straight away.
Being on time! 4th January - Having decided to meet a friend to get some of her work done, I was on my way to be there on time. But on that day, all the buses, all the tubes and trains were not in my favor. I was about 10 minutes late and her aggressiveness made me a bit defence, but as soon as I realised that, I apologised to her to end it there.

This makes me wonder, Am I not on time for personal commitments ONLY or is this a way I'm trying to cover up saying that I'm on time for work but I get late when it comes to my personal appointments. Why do people get so defensive as soon as a eye brow is raised on them? It is a mistake and learn to accept it. I did this time which took a lot of courage, self control and a hit to the ego. But its good in the long run. Hence forth at least I know how to handle situations (Not that I want to be in a similar one again).

Well, admitting the fact, I was late!This just means I need to try harder and make it happen!

Adios.



6.1.09

Sunday 3 January 2010

New Year 2010

Yes, its here!! :)

Everyone around seems excited about the year, and well they're bound to be. New Year, New Hope and New Challenges, A New beginning...

I decided to start this blog and also some commandments to be followed in the new year.

1. Time is precious! Be on time..

2. Challenging your limits is the real challenge! Trust in your own abilities

3. Stay Strong and keep trying.. It will get better.

4. Life is a race. But don't only run to win, run LEARN MORE and GET BETTER.

5. Save for tomorrow, but also spend on today!

6. Focus on your goals, but don't let them rule your life.

7. Value relationships. Be there for the ones you care for and the ones who care for you! Try and keep friends and family happy.

8. Be patient and tolerant.

9. Thank God for all that he has given you and just ask for his support always.

10. Strive harder to prove something to yourself rather than to prove your worth to others.

11. Help whoever needs you and your support.

12. Accept things the way the are, it will always get better.

13. Keep that smile on your face, it makes your journey easier.

14. Your deeds show the kind of person you are, just do whatever your heart feels for!

15. Live life king size!

16. And most importantly, BE POSITIVE!

And that is, all that I want 2010 to encompass.

I cant begin to say how good 2009 was overall, I just hope all goes well in 2010. May all my friends, family and even acquaintances get the best and all that they wish for!

Good Luck and cheers to my first entry on this blog! More to follow. :)